Thank You everyone, We are doing fine, Mom is in a better place after three and a half years in a home and the last couple not walking or communicating it is a blessing. I think Dad took it harder than he expected as he has known it was coming . He looked up in his diary and he visited the home 112 times at 8o miles a round trip. He is 92 and still driving, usually only missed if the weather was bad, the home was quarantined or he wasn't feeling well.
Mom was a huge influence in her kids and grandkids lives and we have many lasting memories.
Mom was a city/town girl when she married Dad but she learned to ride as it was just about the only transportation most of the years back in 1947. I remember in the Centennial parade in Big Beaver 1967 coming around the corner at the bottom of main street someone threw a firecracker and it went off under the big black horse Mom was riding and it buck most of the block of main but Mom stuck him.