This is a perfectly innocent and honest question I have:
I have a friend who makes bigoted remarks about other races and ethnicities. Part of this is because of who this person is - background, life experience, and so on. The problem is that I don't know how to stop this because it reflects badly on this person. Others who hear the remarks think less of this person.
As a "liberal" and a Californian, my inclination is to just tell the person outright to quit it and it's not acceptable. However this goes back an entire lifetime and I think any ultimatum will not be successful and will just cause animosity. Have any of you had this experience and if so, how have you handled it?