So sorry the news isn't good.

I know this is hard on both of you.
Please give Debbie a big hug from us. We are thinking of you and
praying that God's Will be done.
One thing, she'll have some time to tell him good-bye and show how
much she loves him. Not all of us get that opportunity.
Cancer claimed my mother at 59 and she had it for 5 years and thought
she was over it. She was devastated to find out it had come back. She
said she would never take chemo again, it made her so sick the first time;
and she stuck to her word the second time around. She was way too young...