I don't think Hoot is derogitory,at least thats my impression. One of my long time friends is married to a ex Hutterite and they both say,They're going to visit the Hoot relatives,its just short for.
Every Colony is different,they're regulated by Elders,depends what happens after the Elders leave,how things are followed.
Last yr the Colony my girl teaches in,took the computers out of her classroom because the Elders had visited and that was a new rule.What upset Liesha was the computers,{that are heavily regulated by the region} in the classroom was pulled BUT they allowed the computers to stay in the homes where the parents were allowing unlimited access to the net.
In our area there are four pretty close Colonies,I worked on one for a short time with a diabled young man....mostly really good people. But there are Colonies you don't buy stuff from,not high on the honorable scale.If your friend Kola ran into one of those it can leave a bad taste in your mouth for sure!!!