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"Getting Out of Your Own Way" - Part Two...

katrina

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You may not realize this, but if you want to know what the biggest area of your life to fix is, know that you are reminded of it frequently. Your biggest challenge in life is the one that continually gets repeated in your life from childhood onwards until you make corrections.

Challenges often start very young in childhood with issues you may have with your parents. If your parents didn't treat you with love or respect, than you will see similar challenges in your other relationships in your life. If you are easily taken advantage of, then you will be constantly be given opportunities for you to stand up for yourself numerous times in your life - whether it is a family, work or community environment.

So, rather than look at the situation and be a victim, look back at your life for patterns. If you don't see them, you aren't looking hard enough or are not being honest with yourself. We all have them, as no one is perfect and we all have things to perfect in our lives. It's part of the Divine plan that we constantly grow and perfect ourselves. So once you have identified these patterns, it is time to do something about it. Maybe it's best to take small steps, get comfortable, and take more steps. If you have a tendency to get angry, and you have had that tendency your whole life - start working on character refinement. If you have a tendency towards being dishonest, don't make excuses that others may be as well - work on overcoming your temptation.

If you really want to improve who you are as a person, and be a happier and more fulfilled person, now is the time to get moving.

This is Rex Barker, CS (Constantly trying to break my PatternS ) reminding you that today is the first day of the rest of your life. So start breaking your bad patterns right now!
 
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