Advice very often,so listen closely if anyone including your mamma tries to talk you into this minimally invasive crap called "TURP" tell them to get lost,about this time last month I weighed 185 Lbs,today I tipped the scales at 159, not complainin just some good solid advice "DONT" PERIOD.
I dont have the time or inclination to go into detail,really aint worth the trouble,just be aware it damned sure aint the cake walk the docs tell you it is so they can get your money.
good luck