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I Luv Herfrds

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I must be ignorant.
Got a call from a friend awhile back letting me know that I was being accused of trashing a certain persons house. It is that barfly that called me a "kitchen b*tch"
Needless to say I was surprised. :shock:
We are pretty sure she did it herself. The toilet was plugged with toilet paper and raw hamburger, things were just slightly messed up and the air was let out of all 4 tires on her vehicle.
My friend stood up for me and told them that if I had done it there would have been burned areas all around that place or the house would have been just a big pile of ash.
With friends like that who needs enemies. :D

My biggest concern right now is if he finally breaks up with her for good she might vandalise the grave site of his wife.
No I didn't think of that a different friend did. I guess I never thought someone could be that nasty, but I've been wrong before.

Thanks for letting me ramble, I just needed to get it off of my chest.
 

Broke Cowboy

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I Luv Herfrds said:
I must be ignorant.

Not at all - you are being sucked in foolish

Got a call from a friend awhile back letting me know that I was being accused of trashing a certain persons house. It is that barfly that called me a "kitchen b*tch"
Needless to say I was surprised. :shock:

Why would you even care?

We are pretty sure she did it herself. The toilet was plugged with toilet paper and raw hamburger, things were just slightly messed up and the air was let out of all 4 tires on her vehicle.

And this matters?

My friend stood up for me and told them that if I had done it there would have been burned areas all around that place or the house would have been just a big pile of ash.

Good - but perhaps this friend is just another person who is enjoying being the middle man?

With friends like that who needs enemies. :D

You need to avoid this person at all costs and ignore anything that is stated by her - at all costs. Your actions will speak for you.

We hear about this "person" far, far too often - seems to me this "person" has figured the bait - has your number and you are biting.

Perhaps it is time for you to get a life - move on from all this schitte?


My biggest concern right now is if he finally breaks up with her for good she might vandalise the grave site of his wife.

Not your concern - not at all - no matter what happens - not your concern. Stay out of this. Go away - far away run away.

No I didn't think of that a different friend did. I guess I never thought someone could be that nasty, but I've been wrong before.

And in the end - who cares? If you do she wins - leave it lie. Noise in the wind.

Thanks for letting me ramble, I just needed to get it off of my chest.

You need to get a new life - or learn to relax about life. This type of schitte is what kills people - go away and stay away.

No excuses - just do it.

Hmmm.... perhaps I need to get a life and stay out of this - female issues - emotions - and such. Yeah I know the history - but the friend/wife is dead and you all have to move on. You cannot control everything.

Run from this - today! You will never win - hogs love to roll in the mud and you will end up there if you are not careful.

Toss ALL your friends - seems they are all tied together somehow - time to look in the mirror and ask yourself if you need any of them - time to start over. It can be done.

My daughter is a grown woman and this is the advice I would give her.

As for the thanks - you are more than welcome.[/
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I Luv Herfrds

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broke cowboy I had been out of it for quite a few weeks until this came up.
Yes it is my concern if that trash does damage on the grave site. Now tell the truth, would you tolerate someone doing damage on your best friends grave? Think hard about that before you answer.

Yeah I think you need to get a life your self before you start telling others to do it.
I thought most of the nasties were over on cattletoday, but you just proved that they are here too.
 

Broke Cowboy

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I Luv Herfrds said:
broke cowboy I had been out of it for quite a few weeks until this came up.
Yes it is my concern if that trash does damage on the grave site. Now tell the truth, would you tolerate someone doing damage on your best friends grave? Think hard about that before you answer.

Yeah I think you need to get a life your self before you start telling others to do it.
I thought most of the nasties were over on cattletoday, but you just proved that they are here too.

Sorry you feel that way

You posted and I gave a pragmatic response that will not only solve your troubles but will actually work - in other words an honest response - outa this one

BC
 

I Luv Herfrds

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BC waiting for an answer to my question.

You know if you truely knew me you would know already that I had laughed this off, guess I need to use the laughing icons, but since you truely DON'T know me I guess I have to explain it.
I thought it was funnier then hell. I hadn't been anywhere near this couple since before Thanksgiving, so it came out of the blue.
The friend that called to tell me, did, so I was forewarned. Cops were never called so that ended it.

Like I said I just thought it was funnier then hell.

Now answer my question.
 

Broke Cowboy

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I Luv Herfrds said:
BC waiting for an answer to my question.

You know if you truely knew me you would know already that I had laughed this off, guess I need to use the laughing icons, but since you truely DON'T know me I guess I have to explain it.
I thought it was funnier then hell. I hadn't been anywhere near this couple since before Thanksgiving, so it came out of the blue.
The friend that called to tell me, did, so I was forewarned. Cops were never called so that ended it.

Like I said I just thought it was funnier then hell.

Now answer my question.

Nope - spoke my piece - am finished ....

Stay safe and stay calm.

BC
 

kolanuraven

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Broke Cowboy gave you some of the best advice EVER!

I've got a guy friend with a crazy woman ( now his wife) and I've walked away from them and all contact with them.

He's been my friend all my life, over 40 yrs, but it's not worth the crap to deal with all the drama.


BC's right.....run...run fast.
 

I Luv Herfrds

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She's not his wife.
Ended up at the same funeral today as him. He sat on one side of the church and I on the other.

Had a nice visit with the kids though, so I am happy with that.
 

kolanuraven

Well-known member
I Luv Herfrds said:
She's not his wife.
Ended up at the same funeral today as him. He sat on one side of the church and I on the other.

Had a nice visit with the kids though, so I am happy with that.


Doesn't matter that she's not his wife NOW...sounds like she's sitting comfortable and prob will be in short order.

He's chosen......and he's chosen HER. And she's chosen HIM.

Years could pass....but he will realize his mistake....and it's for him to realize not you to point out.

Remember when you were a kid and mom & dad told ' don't touch' or ' no' or 'don't do that'....and you would do your damnest to go against what they said? The more you seem negative towards this gal...the closer he's gonna draw to her. It's just human nature, we all do it.


Either be as nice as you can....or like in my case, just be neutral and have no communication, and let him come to his own conclusion.

When he starts loosing more people....maybe he'll see what's happening.


That way you're not accused of being a biatch or the trouble maker....you're clear of the picture all together.
 
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