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Violence and Homosexuality

Red Robin

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I would be interested in the evidence contradicting or refuting what the author posted. I could care less who authored either the piece you dislike or your author supporting your views. Just give me the data. Is all the information in the first post of Mikes wrong? If not , which part is?
 

CattleRMe

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Red Robin said:
CattleRMe said:
Red Robin said:
One thing left out of our discussion is the social shame on the family when a gay person "comes out" . I know two families who have been affected, one of the mothers was devestated and aged 10years in 2. The "gay" person lived in California and the family here in Arkansas . The family supposedly had no idea. The reason the "gay" person gave for telling the family was they just couldn't go on living the lie. The "lie" was entirely in their posession. The "gay" person didnt want to come visit more, act more "gay" when they were with their parents etc. Their reason in my mind was they didn't want to carry the burden of their sin alone. Shame on them. It's killing the mother.


Social shame does not play into it when you love someone. Unconditional love is loving someone no matter what. No ifs no ands no buts.
You are taking a selfish view of social shame. Maybe it is worth the sacrifice to you to be publicly shuned but for this girls mother she gets no ("unconditional love" as you call it) , benefit. Her daughter didn't love her enough to keep it at least private but rather has "came out" with the news . She toils with it daily as do lots of families.

I am not taking a selfish view on social shame. When you love someone you are willing to give and sacrafice for them to be happy. Maybe she doesn't love her daughter enough to not care what the neighbors think. You shouldn't stop loving someone because they don't live the life you thought they should. Love just isn't supposed to work like that.
 

Red Robin

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CattleRMe said:
Red Robin said:
CattleRMe said:
Social shame does not play into it when you love someone. Unconditional love is loving someone no matter what. No ifs no ands no buts.
You are taking a selfish view of social shame. Maybe it is worth the sacrifice to you to be publicly shuned but for this girls mother she gets no ("unconditional love" as you call it) , benefit. Her daughter didn't love her enough to keep it at least private but rather has "came out" with the news . She toils with it daily as do lots of families.

When you love someone you are willing to give and sacrafice for them to be happy.
You are so self centered you don't even read what you wrote. Don't tell your mother! If you love her then you should be willing to give and sacrafice for her to be happy! You homos live for yourself and for the moment. Which brings me to another topic. I have never known a "gay" person who thought past the end of their nose. All the supposed good things a gay person gets from being gay is up front. The longer you live the worse it gets. There are no children, grandchildren. There is rarely a life long bond. For normal people the marriage gets better with age. Children come, then grandchildren, then the bliss of the 50yr wedding annivesary, rocking on the porch , etc. It gets better the longer your married. Homosexuality is a dead end road which gets rougher with age. It's a sin. Like any othe sin, it has a cost.
 

CattleRMe

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Red Robin said:
CattleRMe said:
Red Robin said:
You are taking a selfish view of social shame. Maybe it is worth the sacrifice to you to be publicly shuned but for this girls mother she gets no ("unconditional love" as you call it) , benefit. Her daughter didn't love her enough to keep it at least private but rather has "came out" with the news . She toils with it daily as do lots of families.

When you love someone you are willing to give and sacrafice for them to be happy.
You are so self centered you don't even read what you wrote. Don't tell your mother! If you love her then you should be willing to give and sacrafice for her to be happy! You homos live for yourself and for the moment. Which brings me to another topic. I have never known a "gay" person who thought past the end of their nose. All the supposed good things a gay person gets from being gay is up front. The longer you live the worse it gets. There are no children, grandchildren. There is rarely a life long bond. For normal people the marriage gets better with age. Children come, then grandchildren, then the bliss of the 50yr wedding annivesary, rocking on the porch , etc. It gets better the longer your married. Homosexuality is a dead end road which gets rougher with age. It's a sin. Like any othe sin, it has a cost.

Umm ok first off I'm not a homo I like men and I'm a woman that is not a homosexual.

Do you not think that homosexuals realize what they are missing in life by who they are attracted to? Do you honestly think they chose a life style that people look down on and judge them for? If they didn't want the life long bond then why are they so badly wanting marriage to be leaglized for them?

So a homosexual should keep how they are to themselves........are you suggesting they lie to their family?
 

Silver

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Red Robin is a man??!!?! I'm kinda surprised I missed that. I bet he USED to be a woman. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
 

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