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What is happening???!!!!!!

Angus Cattle Shower

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Now mom and gramma are fighting. :sigh: I guess the Good Lord wont give you any more than I can handle, but this is too much . They wont stop yelling at each other and Dad isn't home. I don't know what do do anymore. Weh everyone yells liek this I try to get small and hide, but I cant. I keep getting caught in the middle. Grrrrrrrrr... Mom is in pain, and sick, and Grandma keeps yelling them. Grandma wont let mom go to the hospital. Mom keeps telling her to leave her alone, and she wont. She told her to make her, but then she got mad. She keeps telling Mom what a bad parent she is adn when i tried to say something, I got yelled at. I am sick and tired of this. I am getting so frusterated, and when I try to do my events tomorrow I have a feeling ill fluke cause i am soi worried. I cant take this any more!!!!!!! What do I do??????????????????
 

Maple Leaf Angus

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ACS, my thoughts are with you. I can remember quite well, from when I was a kid, what it was like to hear a lot of shouting and arguing in our home. And it sure wasn't fun.

I am so sorry that you need to go hear it. Just remember, it is not your fault. It is because some older people don't know how to manage the stress and trouble in their lives. So it spills over onto you.

Sometimes it's awfully hard to see where the "Good Lord" is in all this mess. Well, He is there, even though it might not seem like it. And He sees you all the time. I think that if He were not near us, things would be a lot worse.

So if you can, let all the trouble roll off of your shoulders and let Him take it up. Because that is what He wants to do for each one of us. I know, because He did it for me.

All the best in your events tommorrow,

MLA.
 

Angus Cattle Shower

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Maple Leaf Angus said:
ACS, my thoughts are with you. I can remember quite well, from when I was a kid, what it was like to hear a lot of shouting and arguing in our home. And it sure wasn't fun.

I am so sorry that you need to go hear it. Just remember, it is not your fault. It is because some older people don't know how to manage the stress and trouble in their lives. So it spills over onto you.

Sometimes it's awfully hard to see where the "Good Lord" is in all this mess. Well, He is there, even though it might not seem like it. And He sees you all the time. I think that if He were not near us, things would be a lot worse.

So if you can, let all the trouble roll off of your shoulders and let Him take it up. Because that is what He wants to do for each one of us. I know, because He did it for me.

All the best in your events tommorrow,

MLA.


I guess all i can do is wait ot out and keep praying. Noone can come and watch my events tomorrow-mom diddnt come to any of my hockey games, and dad would drop me off and go and do other stuff-he stayed for 4. He cant come cause he has to seed and I understand it, but mom just cant-thats what she says.
 

Faster horses

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Mostly I would like to give your folks a swift kick in the butt.

You don't deserve what you are getting. I know, I shouldn't say these
things, but it's true.

Sorry, ACS. Sometimes things suck.
 

TXTibbs

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Faster horses said:
Mostly I would like to give your folks a swift kick in the butt.

You don't deserve what you are getting. I know, I shouldn't say these
things, but it's true.

Sorry, ACS. Sometimes things suck.

I agree totally.
 

the_jersey_lilly_2000

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Have any of you watched the show on TLC called Shalome in the Home?

Can't remember the Rabbi's name but he goes to the family's home and helps them with some of their problems.....best thing he does that gets their attention is video tapes them when they are argueing. I'm not sayin you should do that, but it's somethin to think about. Then again, might look up TLC Shalome in the Home and see if they'll come do a show at your house LOL...it's amazing the changes that he can accomplish in a couple weeks time.
 

Brad S

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ACS, you're dealt a tough situation, but you can deal with it. Calmly, (always remain calm) ask anyone who raises their voice to behave civilly. You need to get emotion out of the problem resolution, and by remaining calm you set the pace.

Also get commitments from all disagreeing parties to stay civil. Do this when no disagreement is going on and everyone will agree to act civilly.

Time for your Dad to be a man. I'm sure your Mom and your Dad's Mom are fueding over the split - tell you Dad how tough this is on you and worse for your little siblings.Stay calm and ask your Dad to keep them apart or be there if they get togather or otherwise stop the uncivil conduct.
Its likely all involved are decent people when rational.
 

ranchwife

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Faster horses said:
Mostly I would like to give your folks a swift kick in the butt.

You don't deserve what you are getting. I know, I shouldn't say these
things, but it's true.

Sorry, ACS. Sometimes things suck.

ditto!!! How very sad when the kids have to be caught in the middle!!! Just not right!~!! :cry: :cry: :cry:
 

Angus Cattle Shower

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The only thing that I oculd do was try and keep a stiff upper lip to help the other two. Dad wasn't even in the yard-he was out spraying the peas when all o fthis happened. He talked to the both of them late last night.

Thanks Everyone!
 

Faster horses

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You betcha, ACS. And you just come right back on here when you have something bothering you. We will listen!!!

Glad to hear your dad did something about what was happening.
 

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