That is a great story and powerful testimony, jigs. You have accomplished a very honorable change, and are to be commended mightily for making such a turn-around. Thanks for sharing your story with us; it is very compelling and inspiring.
we had our first marriage counseling apt yesterday.... therapist said that we progressed more in 6 months on our own than most couples do in therapy in over a year..... so I guess we are headed in the right direction.