What we believe becomes our reality so if I was you I would change my thinking. If you're Christian then I don't understand why so many believe that what was possible 2000 years ago is now only possible in the next life. The key is we have to believe with all our heart with more faith and then the mountains can be moved.

Don't settle! If you and virtual rancher can't make it reality then both of you just be friends and move on or decide to make it happen but dont settle.