When it comes to spouses, an ag background isn't nearly as important as staying power, commitment, strength, and ethics - and that goes both ways.  I sure don't mean to kick you when your down, but from the sounds of things, it kind of sounds like you got caught up in the surface stuff and just didn't look deep enough.  My mother was a city girl, and she has been my fathers #1 supporter for better than 60 years now.  They have been through hard times, good times, infidelity, the death of a child, and many, many other things as well.  I know too many other couples with the same kind of relationship, and the same kinds of problems to believe that an ag background is the key.  The key is the individual person.  :wink:

Iluvherefords - I honestly believe that if a prenuptial agreement is required, then you have married the wrong person.  I would never sign one, nor would I ask my partner to sign one.