So I am at a Horse Expo this Spring. A cousin runs into me and starts asking about a Hackamore a guy is selling at a booth. It is the only product he is selling, complete with the video stuff, he went all out. It isn't a standard hackamore. I really hadn't paid attention to it, but a few friends said it was basically a Hackamore with an Easy Stop incorporated in it.
My reply to her was I hadn't paid attention as my wole goal was to basically have a horse that I didn't need any headgear on. Now, I don't ride wih no headgear, my point is in my approach a broke horse is one that you really aren't on thier head at all.
Fast Forward to yesterday, first time I had seen her since then. We are at a funeral. Mind you, lots of family so we have been to lots of funerals. Death is not a big dramatic deal in our family....
I am in the next to back row. She comes in and kinda whaps me on the top of the head with the program. I am thinking this is in good natured fun. Then she starts talking and the funeral is about to start. She informs me they bought the hackamore and it has worked well for them. I just kinda turn and say "Good"....My wife turns and says "Well, most of Pats horses are pasture ornaments right now so he doesn't need a new bit"...The Cousin goes on to talk about how it has changed her 4 year old. like it is going from manual steering to Power Steering..
I really hadn't paid too much mind, but she was gone after the funeral and I didn't get another chance to talk to her.....I woke up and remembered, her new Husband made a comment at the Expo when I said I try to make a horse you don't nede headgear on....he said "That's why those cowboys have he really big spur rowels that are so sharp." At that point, I may have made a face my wife scolds me for. I didn't go into it with hem at that point cause I have learned many people are ignorant because they want to understand stuff a certain way and I am not going to change it, so why bother...
I just realized she might be mad at my opinion......Dang Horse people are the thinnest skinned folks around in my estimation....If my opinion didn't matter, 'Why ask?' If my opinion mattered so much, "Why Ask?" LOL...
Easy Stops are a thing there's a lot of opinions on, mostly I think they are viewed negatively. I had an old man that taught me a bunch who would use them. It was the only headgeqar on a pretty well finished horse and he was super light with it. I don't trust myself enough to be that light, so I have never used one. Kinda like extreme long shanked bits with high ports. I respect the guys that can use them right. I want to be real light, but I can't guarentee it, so I stay away from those and use a lot of time making the horse light with less severe gear.....
Anyways, I woke up thinking about this and wanted to air it out...Thanks for giving me the platform to do so. I need to contact her and make sure she realizes I meant no offense, I was just stating my opinion.....
Horse people...... LOL...
BTW, the wife just wondered why I was up and says my cousin didn't have a cranky look on her face at all. HSe had turned to talk to her, I hadn't.....Soooooo...never Mind, LOL,
PPRM
My reply to her was I hadn't paid attention as my wole goal was to basically have a horse that I didn't need any headgear on. Now, I don't ride wih no headgear, my point is in my approach a broke horse is one that you really aren't on thier head at all.
Fast Forward to yesterday, first time I had seen her since then. We are at a funeral. Mind you, lots of family so we have been to lots of funerals. Death is not a big dramatic deal in our family....
I am in the next to back row. She comes in and kinda whaps me on the top of the head with the program. I am thinking this is in good natured fun. Then she starts talking and the funeral is about to start. She informs me they bought the hackamore and it has worked well for them. I just kinda turn and say "Good"....My wife turns and says "Well, most of Pats horses are pasture ornaments right now so he doesn't need a new bit"...The Cousin goes on to talk about how it has changed her 4 year old. like it is going from manual steering to Power Steering..
I really hadn't paid too much mind, but she was gone after the funeral and I didn't get another chance to talk to her.....I woke up and remembered, her new Husband made a comment at the Expo when I said I try to make a horse you don't nede headgear on....he said "That's why those cowboys have he really big spur rowels that are so sharp." At that point, I may have made a face my wife scolds me for. I didn't go into it with hem at that point cause I have learned many people are ignorant because they want to understand stuff a certain way and I am not going to change it, so why bother...
I just realized she might be mad at my opinion......Dang Horse people are the thinnest skinned folks around in my estimation....If my opinion didn't matter, 'Why ask?' If my opinion mattered so much, "Why Ask?" LOL...
Easy Stops are a thing there's a lot of opinions on, mostly I think they are viewed negatively. I had an old man that taught me a bunch who would use them. It was the only headgeqar on a pretty well finished horse and he was super light with it. I don't trust myself enough to be that light, so I have never used one. Kinda like extreme long shanked bits with high ports. I respect the guys that can use them right. I want to be real light, but I can't guarentee it, so I stay away from those and use a lot of time making the horse light with less severe gear.....
Anyways, I woke up thinking about this and wanted to air it out...Thanks for giving me the platform to do so. I need to contact her and make sure she realizes I meant no offense, I was just stating my opinion.....
Horse people...... LOL...
BTW, the wife just wondered why I was up and says my cousin didn't have a cranky look on her face at all. HSe had turned to talk to her, I hadn't.....Soooooo...never Mind, LOL,
PPRM