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Dirty song lyrics can prompt early teen sex

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Dirty song lyrics can prompt early teen sex
Degrading messages influence sexual behavior, study finds

Teens whose iPods are full of music with raunchy, sexual lyrics start having sex sooner than those who prefer other songs, a study found.

Whether it's hip-hop, rap, pop or rock, much of popular music aimed at teens contains sexual overtones. Its influence on their behavior appears to depend on how the sex is portrayed, researchers found.

Songs depicting men as "sex-driven studs," women as sex objects and with explicit references to sex acts are more likely to trigger early sexual behavior than those where sexual references are more veiled and relationships appear more committed, the study found.

Teens who said they listened to lots of music with degrading sexual messages were almost twice as likely to start having intercourse or other sexual activities within the following two years as were teens who listened to little or no sexually degrading music.

Among heavy listeners, 51 percent started having sex within two years, versus 29 percent of those who said they listened to little or no sexually degrading music.

'Cool thing to do'
Exposure to lots of sexually degrading music "gives them a specific message about sex," said lead author Steven Martino, a researcher for Rand Corp. in Pittsburgh. Boys learn they should be relentless in pursuit of women and girls learn to view themselves as sex objects, he said.

"We think that really lowers kids' inhibitions and makes them less thoughtful" about sexual decisions and may influence them to make decisions they regret, he said.

The study, based on telephone interviews with 1,461 participants aged 12 to 17, appears in the August issue of Pediatrics, being released Monday.

Most participants were virgins when they were first questioned in 2001. Follow-up interviews were done in 2002 and 2004 to see if music choice had influenced subsequent behavior.

Natasha Ramsey, a 17-year-old from New Brunswick, N.J., said she and other teens sometimes listen to sexually explicit songs because they like the beat.

"I won't really realize that the person is talking about having sex or raping a girl," she said. Even so, the message "is being beaten into the teens' heads," she said. "We don't even really realize how much."

"A lot of teens think that's the way they're supposed to be, they think that's the cool thing to do. Because it's so common, it's accepted," said Ramsey, a teen editor for Sexetc.org, a teen sexual health Web site produced at Rutgers University.

"Teens will try to deny it, they'll say 'No, it's not the music,' but it IS the music. That has one of the biggest impacts on our lives," Ramsey said.

The Recording Industry Association of America, which represents the U.S. recording industry, declined to comment on the findings.

Benjamin Chavis, chief executive officer of the Hip-Hip Summit Action Network, a coalition of hip-hop musicians and recording industry executives, said explicit music lyrics are a cultural expression that reflect "social and economic realities."

"We caution rushing to judgment that music more than any other factor is a causative factor" for teens initiating sex, Chavis said.

Healthy home atmosphere
Martino said the researchers tried to account for other factors that could affect teens' sexual behavior, including parental permissiveness, and still found explicit lyrics had a strong influence.

However, Yvonne K. Fulbright, a New York-based sex researcher and author, said factors including peer pressure, self-esteem and home environment are probably more influential than the research suggests.

"It's a little dangerous to just pinpoint one thing. You have to look at everything that's going on in a young person's life," she said. "When somebody has a healthy sense of themselves, they don't take these lyrics too seriously."

David Walsh, a psychologist who heads the National Institute on Media and the Family, said the results make sense, and echo research on the influence of videos and other visual media.

The brain's impulse-control center undergoes "major construction" during the teen years at the same time that an interest in sex starts to blossom, he said.

Add sexually arousing lyrics and "it's not that surprising that a kid with a heavier diet of that ... would be at greater risk for sexual behavior," Walsh said.

Martino said parents, educators and teens themselves need to think more critically about messages in music lyrics.

Fulbright agreed.

"A healthy home atmosphere is one that allows a child to investigate what pop culture has to offer and at the same time say 'I know this is a fun song but you know that it's not right to treat women this way or this isn't a good person to have as a role model,"' she said.

© 2006 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.
 
jigs said:
just my luckl, I grew up in the days of Madonna's " Like a Virgin"

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
which was worse....that madonna song or Quiet Riot's "Come on, feel the noise"!?!? :shock: :shock: :shock: :wink: :wink: :wink:
 
ranchwife said:
jigs said:
just my luckl, I grew up in the days of Madonna's " Like a Virgin"

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
which was worse....that madonna song or Quiet Riot's "Come on, feel the noise"!?!? :shock: :shock: :shock: :wink: :wink: :wink:

Quiet Riot was just good hard music....everyone else changed the lyrics to make it dirty.

there are alot of examples from the 80's that would compete with todays tunes....2livecrew is one that comes to mind.....

but in reality, I think it falls back to good parenting, and being involved in your kids life that is the true factor in the whole study.
 
I believe every bit of that article. FWIW -- I fall in the "under 21" class (not telling my exact age :wink:) and I've understood for a long time how music affects me. Perhaps because I've taken music lessons (piano) for many years I'm a little more in-tune to that sort of thing?

But that article clearly illustrates why there are some sorts of music I refuse to listen to. Doesn't always even have to be the words -- the beat and the tune itself can sure affect a person.
 
ranchwife said:
jigs said:
just my luckl, I grew up in the days of Madonna's " Like a Virgin"

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
which was worse....that madonna song or Quiet Riot's "Come on, feel the noise"!?!? :shock: :shock: :shock: :wink: :wink: :wink:

Now thats a good song.Makes you want to dig out your old parachute pants and poof your hair up I bet.
 
Denny you had me worried there for a minute....thought you had some parachute pants hid somewhere back in the back of the closet, and you was gonna poof yer hair........I wanted to see pictures :roll:
 
the_jersey_lilly_2000 said:
Denny you had me worried there for a minute....thought you had some parachute pants hid somewhere back in the back of the closet, and you was gonna poof yer hair........I wanted to see pictures :roll:


If I had pants from highschool there's no way I could fit into them and my hair is very short 1/2 inch long.
 
Ah,ha......
No have you??? :P
What was some of the other songs. I can't remember... I remember the really filthy song.. But there was others that I liked better.... Man it is sad to get old....
 
Denny said:
ranchwife said:
jigs said:
just my luckl, I grew up in the days of Madonna's " Like a Virgin"

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
which was worse....that madonna song or Quiet Riot's "Come on, feel the noise"!?!? :shock: :shock: :shock: :wink: :wink: :wink:

Now thats a good song.Makes you want to dig out your old parachute pants and poof your hair up I bet.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: I listen to Sirius on my tv alot (guess satellite tv does indeed come in handy when you are bored and busy cleaning the house :wink: ) and love to listen to the 80's channel.....now that I am an "adult", I can understand the words I am singing where as when i was a teen, i really did not pay much attention!! Some of the other "risque" singers were Billy Idol "white wedding", "Stroke" (sorry, cannot recall who sang this one), Adam Ant, Aerosmith and many of the good old heavy rock bands (who I listened to constantly!!!)....no wonder I often found my poor mom in the front room with EARPLUGS in while I was listening to my "music"!! :shock: :shock: :D
 
Stroke, was by Billy Squire wasn't it?

and I know that it was written about how the record industry just strokes you along till you lose "marketability" then they dump you....had nothing to do with sex.

White Wedding was written by Billy in response to his siter getting knocked up and having to get married.

Aerosmith had a few rogh ones. love in an elevator, sweet emotion, walk this way

the Bullet Boys ....smooth up inya

Motley Crue : too young to fall in love....rattlesnake shake....dr feelgood...
plus going to thier concerts, I think if I had a dollar for every girl who flashed her headlights at Tommy Lee, I could retire very wealthy!

Warrant: cherry pie

Poison : talk dirty to me ( my senior year I danced with my biology teacher to this song)

Wasp : harder faster

Kiss well.....almost everything they sang.....


but in defense of the 80's power metal bands, I never felt compelled to fornicate after listening to one of thier songs.....that and there were no willing participants in my high school.....


:twisted:
 
my gate, sweet heart, definately only swings one way.....and the teacher was a woman. if I wasn't so damned affraid of my wife, I would show you how my gate swings......but if she ever found out, my gate would probably be ripped off it's hinges!!!!
 
ranchwife said:
jigs said:
just my luckl, I grew up in the days of Madonna's " Like a Virgin"

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
which was worse....that madonna song or Quiet Riot's "Come on, feel the noise"!?!? :shock: :shock: :shock: :wink: :wink: :wink:

C'mon feel the nose, girls rock the boys.. we get wild, wild wild... need I sing more, cause yer tempting me... now i gotta go find that song again. lol.

have a good one
 
ACS most people sing it where they change the rock to the F word......

that gets it banned from mot high school dances, same with mony mony by Billy Idol
 
My school was the most paranoid school in the world about things like this buy someone mony mony never got banned... Of course, I spanned into the early 90's for my HS days and a lot of rap got banned.
 
I was a teen throughout the seventies,loved and still love the rock of that era. I remember my mom,hating the stuff I listened to,said it was going to rot my brain,don't ever remember it leading me down a dark path though or into promiscuity,too scared of my dads reaction to ever go there.

I do remember the first time Greg and I chaparoned our sons teen dance,and heard the "New" version of mony,mony :shock: Well that stuff would just rot my sons brain....lol
 

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