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Kosmo Kid's "Letter to his Daughter"

Soapweed

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For an English assignment last spring, the students were to write a letter to one of their imaginary offspring warning them of some of the pitfalls of life. The Kosmo Kid wrote this true letter to his "imaginary" daughter. With ranchwife's post about "Demodriver going off to college" and the replies that followed, it reminded me that this might be an appropriate time to put up the Kosmo Kid's letter.


To my daughter:

My daughter, I am writing this letter to remind you of the pain this world can offer. Even those with a strong upbringing on moral standards can falter with the smallest of temptations. You never knew your Aunt Tiffany, but she and I were very close. All through my formative years, my sister was there for me. She would care for me when your grandmother wasn't around. Everyone who knew Tiffany was a better person, if for no other reason than knowing her. This letter wasn't written to lecture you on life's lessons, but provide you with a story of betrayal, true love, and the unfairness of life.

Tiffany was a 4.0 student all through high school. She achieved a 31 on her ACT exam, and received acceptance to the prestigious Savannah College of Art and Design in Georgia. Her life's goal was to one day be a world-renowned architect. She wanted her mansions to be unique and genuine, so everyone would know they were hers. She wanted them to be built with the highest quality and with a standard of a Frank Lloyd Wright building. I believe in my heart she could have easily accomplished this goal had there been ideal circumstances.

Tiffany never had any boyfriends in high school. She was a devout Christian and believed she should never waste her time on someone she couldn't someday marry. Love can be an illusive emotion. It can be very deceiving and should only be taken with caution. This is where your aunt followed the wrong path. In the summer of 2004 she met a handsome young man at a friend's wedding. This young man's name was Thaddeus; he deceived her with his convincing rhetoric and captivating charm. She immediately fell in love. To be honest, he deceived our whole family including myself. This is my deepest regret. I often wonder if I could have made a difference by seeing him without rose-colored glasses. Maybe, I could have done something to save my sister. All of the feelings I possess are not in vain. I just wanted to see her happy, because she found joy in seeing me happy. It was her turn, for once, to wear the crown and golden scepter.

Thaddeus and Tiffany are members of a religious cult where communication with the outer world is strictly prohibited. Tiffany has completely severed her connections with our Moreland family. I haven't heard, seen, or spoken to Tiffany for a full two years. She is dead to me, or am I dead to her? One thing I want you to realize is when she is ready to come home, I will race to Colorado to bring her back and nothing will get in my way. Tiffany's father-in-law, Russell, is the leader of the cult. Supposedly, he walks and talks with God, much like the angel Gabriel. This is sick and perverse, and a true abomination of God's true nature. Yet I feel it is necessary for you to hear it. Tiffany has a new family, one that supposedly loves her more then we love her. One would have thought Tiffany's Christian values would have had a deep enough foundation to withstand this kind of storm. This is the reason for my letter to you, so I can show you unrealistic scenarios and prepare you for them. There isn't a day in my life where I don't think of your aunt. I miss her more than you could ever know. At least, I never want you to feel this pain. Life can be harsh and unfair, but maybe I can save you from trouble unlike the way I couldn't save Tiffany.

This is a story that is unfinished. It has a beginning, but no end. The most intriguing part makes a person wonder what could have been, or what will be? It is hard to tell whether someone could have made a difference, or if some things are just inevitable. We continue to walk through rough terrain, no matter how we live. Your grandmother writes her a letter at least once a month telling her that we still love her and would like to keep in contact. It is hard to tell whether she even gets these letters. Yet these letters will never be an exercise of futility. I am confident they will have a purpose down the road. Feelings of revenge and anger are gone from my heart, and they have been replaced with love and compassion; so if for no other reason, this ordeal will not go without a positive side affect.

Keep in mind my daughter. If I could walk you through life and protect you from these dangers, I would. I have grown from this and I have learned from it. Hopefully you will learn from it, and not be caught off guard when placed with a temptation of this magnitude.
 
!!!WOW!!!!

That was also probably very therapeutic and cathartic for him to write!

Savannah College of Art & Design.....EXCELLENT school!!!
 
kolanuraven said:
!!!WOW!!!!

That was also probably very therapeutic and cathartic for him to write!

Savannah College of Art & Design.....EXCELLENT school!!!

We tried to do right by her. She did very well during the first trimester that she was there, and made the Dean's List. She did some outstanding artwork at this time.
 
kolanuraven said:
Lilfe is a circle....she'll be back! :D

Comforting. Thanks. We turned her over to the Good Lord. He took care of her this far, and we are quite sure that He still has big plans for her.

Here is a photo that I just took of a charcoal drawing that she did for a "self-portrait" assignment. We had it framed and it hangs above the piano. The outside dimensions of the frame are 55" x 39".

Tiffanysselfportrait.jpg

Tiffany's self-portrait
 
Wow! My heart goes out to you, and hope that Tiffany returns to you soon. The self portrait is incredible! She is a talented young woman.
 
Ohh Soapweed my heart breaks for you and your family. I know only too well the heartbreak of a family member becoming enrapt with a cult.
 
What an interesting assignment, and a very well done job by your son. It gets an A+ from this teacher. I hope for the best into the future with this situation.
 
We think about Tiffany frequently and pray she'll wake up very soon to her error and return home.

I believe it is humanly impossible for a person to successfully leave loved ones in the lurch without it coming back to haunt them in some heavy, wearisome way. And the only cure is restoring contact. They can never ever be mentally free until they return and set things right. I pray that comes very soon for her.

In the meantime your posting of the story is a bravely open and helpful thing to do and could protect another unwary soul.
 
soapweed...and kosmo---know that your family is in my prayers!!! I cannot even begin to imagine what you have gone through....andhope that I never will!!! Kosmos letter was BEAUTIFUL and I hope that someday his REAL daughter has the chance to read her father's words and can feel the depth of his love for her aunt!!! :cry: :cry: :cry:
 
Soapweed, I too think of Tiffany often since you first told us here of what happened to her. This letter shows so much maturity and insight on Brock's part. What an outstanding young man he is. You are such a fine family and your love of God shows in so much of what you post on here. That is so meaningful to many of us.

We can only pray that things change for Tiffany, and I'm sure what has happened to her is still an open wound. I know that in your walk with God you know He works in mysterious ways. Sometimes it takes longer than we want to wait for things to play out.

Thanks for sharing this letter. It was important to me to read it.
With your permission, I would like to email it to some friends.

It is things like this heart-felt letter that make this site so interesting.
 
Faster horses said:
Thanks for sharing this letter. It was important to me to read it.
With your permission, I would like to email it to some friends.

It is things like this heart-felt letter that make this site so interesting.

You may certainly use the letter if you would like, Faster Horses. My dad printed it in his "Friends and Fancies" column a couple months ago for the local papers, and it seemed to draw quite a bit of response. I thought with kids going off to college and coming up against various temptations, it might be an appropriate time to post the letter.

Thank you to everyone for your kind thoughts. You are all "family" and we appreciate your words of encouragement. Even though it seems to us that Tiffany is ruining her own life, we have decided that there is no reason the situation has to bog us down. We will just roll with the punches and carry on to the best of our abilities.
 
Situations like this are so very difficult to understand and get a grip on. What a blessing for you ( and us) that you have turned this situation over to the Lord and are waiting on Him. I'm sure even though the days of waiting are often wearisome and troubling, God has given you a measure of peace as well. What an impressive piece written by a young man.....surely a growing experience as well as a testimony to the grace that he has experienced in his life. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. After reading the letter tonight, I share your burden. May God continue to wrap His arms of comfort around you all.
 
When I first started reading this post on the assignment that Kosmos had to do...I thought ok...what's a teenage boy gonna write? Well I must say that blew me away! I don't think that some adults quite have that much understanding of life let alone a teenager. I'm sad that you have to go through this, but you have a wonderful family, and though it's not a good situation, I'm sure it's made you all stronger. I do believe that your daughter will come back to you someday, and when she see that self portrait hanging in your house, she'll know that you were always thinking of her. Thanks so much for sharing this...
 
Beautiful letter!!!! Very heart wrenching situation. Know that you all are in our prayers. I've thought of you often with this situation, and prayed each time I thought of you, for your daughters safe return.
Kosmo....you done good....real good.
 
I have always believed that when we die we should be judged, not by our accomplishments in life, but more by how we raised our kids. because THAT is going to affect the world more than how big our estate is.

Soap, after reading Kosmo's letter, you will held up pretty high as far as I am conscerned
 
It's not often this "old" goat gets emotional but this is one of these times.
Kinda wants to make me get a rope and pay those folks a visit.

"May the true God watch over you and your family and guide her back into the folds of your flock!
 
Soap, I think about this awful situation often and wonder how I would handle a deal like this. My actual solutions probably wouldn't change anything and just get me a long jail sentence.

However, I was wondering how this cult makes it's money, and if the members are out in public....which they must be to some extent if she met the guy she married at school. Also, do you have an address or picture? You never know when someone on here might accidentaly be in the same area. Maybe there's also advice that you have to help others avoid such a situation.

Sure hope your family gets some good news re. this situation, soon.
 
you have 2 very talented kids there Soapweed,hopefully Tiffany will also be able to read it,i hope it turns out for all of you
 

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