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My life has been flashing before my very eyes

Soapweed

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Lately we have been going through "stuff" that has accumulated through the years. One old steel ammunition box was opened early yesterday morning, and it was like a time capsule into my past. While going through some of this old memorabilia, I mentioned to Peach, "It feels like I've been bucked off and hit the ground hard, because my life has been flashing before my very eyes." I only kept a diary for one year of my life, and this would have been in the year 1968, when I was a sophomore attending Merriman High School in the last year it was a high school. This diary filled several notebooks, and I think my dad bribed me at the time with a financial incentive if it was kept for an entire year. It's been fun reading what life was like 46 years ago.

Here is the introduction to my diary, written before starting on January 1, 1968:

As you have probably gathered, my name is Steve Moreland. I am 16 and a sophomore in "good old Merriman High." My sole ambition is to become a successful rancher.

1967, as well as the preceding years of my short career, has treated my real well. I made a trade with Dad, getting another Princeton heifer [a Hereford, as they were all Herefords on our ranch in those days] to go with my other four (all five are half-sisters and will be three next spring). I also got a purebred heifer calf in this trade. If this little herd "makes it through to grass," and each cow has a healthy calf at her side, I'll be headed down the right road to ranching and be a pretty happy boy at that.

In another trade with Dad, I got a two-year-old sorrel gelding, two old fencing wagons, a greasy kerosene lantern, and all of the harness he owned except for one set that he reserved the right to keep. In the late fall, Dad helped me to break this sorrel colt and a bay two-year-old mare that I already claimed. With these two green-broke colts and my four-year-old Quarter Horse mare, Sassy [not her real name, but more politically correct], I am pretty well mounted.

My cousins of the same age, Ken Moreland and John Fairhead, and I have gone on two over-night camping trips on horseback. A friend from Martin [SD], Davy Jones, went with us on the first one and Mr. Tarsitano, a teacher from Merriman, went with us on the second one. A packhorse, carrying grub and bedrolls, accompanied us on both trips.

In early spring Dad purchased the "Leach place," twenty miles south of Merriman. This has really kept us busy, changing fences, putting in windmills, watching the cattle, etc., but it has been fun, too. A few "antiques" were found there and now adorn the ranch premises, much to everyone's dismay.

Brandings, cattle drives, a 4-H exchange trip to Minnesota, and general all-around ranch work highlighted the year. This pretty well sums up 1967, which I hope will prepare you from my writings along the Diary line.
 
Those diaries are priceless. My dad had kept them since 68 I think. Kind of sparse entries in the early days but pretty regular entires the last 20 years.

Found one Mom had started back in the 50's. Dad and the neighbor were operating on a water belly calf. She wrote"Dr's Wayne and Schuster" which are kind of the Canadian version of Abbott and Costello. :lol:
 
my wife had many years of diaries, that were lost in a house fire 15 years ago.... it was very devastating to her. she would often take a summer evening , sit on the porch swing, and read from a passage of that same month ten years previous..... I kidded her that she was reading about old boyfriends. So one night, she asked me to read with her, she took a year, and gave me the summer we dated.... I was mesmerized with the way she wrote about me.... kind of makes an old man wish he kept treating her the same way he did when he was dating....

I think that may be the answer to a happy marriage, to never stop dating.
 
jigs said:
my wife had many years of diaries, that were lost in a house fire 15 years ago.... it was very devastating to her. she would often take a summer evening , sit on the porch swing, and read from a passage of that same month ten years previous..... I kidded her that she was reading about old boyfriends. So one night, she asked me to read with her, she took a year, and gave me the summer we dated.... I was mesmerized with the way she wrote about me.... kind of makes an old man wish he kept treating her the same way he did when he was dating....

I think that may be the answer to a happy marriage, to never stop dating.



could never afford the gas,restraunt meal's,movie's etc that I spent back then, today :lol:
 
Listen to guy talk at Church years about keeping a diary, He told about when he was a kid in High School and some kids got in trouble and said he was with them. How in court he gave his diary to the Judge and the Judge let him go.
I kept one for 25 years since that talk. has helped me with taxes , a USDA restricted pesticide audit, calving , lambing dates .
Kind of fun to go back and read and hope my kids get something out of them.

Thanks for sharing the stories Soapweed, now get out a new Journal and put down the new stories as they happen and add the old one as you remember them.
 
jigs said:
my wife had many years of diaries, that were lost in a house fire 15 years ago.... it was very devastating to her. she would often take a summer evening , sit on the porch swing, and read from a passage of that same month ten years previous..... I kidded her that she was reading about old boyfriends. So one night, she asked me to read with her, she took a year, and gave me the summer we dated.... I was mesmerized with the way she wrote about me.... kind of makes an old man wish he kept treating her the same way he did when he was dating....

I think that may be the answer to a happy marriage, to never stop dating.

That is the secret to marriage in my book too Jigs! :D Sorry about your home. That would sure be tough.
 
jigs said:
my wife had many years of diaries, that were lost in a house fire 15 years ago.... it was very devastating to her. she would often take a summer evening , sit on the porch swing, and read from a passage of that same month ten years previous..... I kidded her that she was reading about old boyfriends. So one night, she asked me to read with her, she took a year, and gave me the summer we dated.... I was mesmerized with the way she wrote about me.... kind of makes an old man wish he kept treating her the same way he did when he was dating....

I think that may be the answer to a happy marriage, to never stop dating.

Yes indeed! And also not to drop your drawers for every nurse that asks you to...

:lol2:

Oh jiggsy, this could go in the classics file along with WD40.
 
the odd part is, I dated that nurse a couple times... nothing ever took off, so we were just friends.....
so after the "exam" prank, I accused her of trying to see me naked.... to which she replied "I got all I needed last summer, after your surgery, and you were still naked and under the drugs...."

she turned, looked at my wife and said " I was not too impressed...."

then belly laughs from them, and self esteem issues for me.....
 
jigs said:
the odd part is, I dated that nurse a couple times... nothing ever took off, so we were just friends.....
so after the "exam" prank, I accused her of trying to see me naked.... to which she replied "I got all I needed last summer, after your surgery, and you were still naked and under the drugs...."

she turned, looked at my wife and said " I was not too impressed...."

then belly laughs from them, and self esteem issues for me.....
:lol: :lol:
 
Soapweed said:
Thanks for the good laughs, jigs. That April Fool prank is a classic. Glad you let the rest of us in on your dilemma. :-)
even being the victim, I knew it was one of the better pranks... felt like it needed to be shared....
 

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