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Well, it looks like Dale and I aren't gonna make 20 years together after all. As soon as I can find a job, place to live, etc. I'm leaving......unless he leaves first, and then I plan to stay here as long as Papa & Nana will let me. With everything that's going on, it may not be very long. I have a feeling they're going to think I'm deserting Dale in his time of need, but in reality, it's just the opposite. I've tried to stick it out and be here for him, but I'm not what he wants anymore, so I guess the best thing for all of us, is to end it before we wind up hating each other. Neither of us want to put Al in the middle of something he has no control over. That's one of the few things we agree on anymore. I don't know what Als going to decide to do, but since he's nearly 18, I figure he can make up his own mind about that.
 
OHHHHHHHHHH Ranchy. I'm so sorry to hear that.
You will be okay. Believe that and try to live each day knowing that
you will.

My thoughts are with you. You take care of yourself.
And you are exactly right about Al. Don't make him guilty over
his choice, if that should not be you. You can still be there
for him, and he will need you, that's for sure.

Good Luck and may God Bless You.
 
Ranchy---- :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: sounds like you andi need to get together and have a good old fashioned "crying session"!!! my heart and prayers go to you, girl!! I can only hope that you have the strength to realize what all my friends and family are trying to convince me of.....things WILL get better and LIFE DOES GO ON!! I still cry myself to sleep most nights, but I am seeing the light at the end of the tunnel and am finding that life goes on!! my boys andmy daughter have helped as have wonderful friends.....all of whom remind me of what a "good person" I am!!! You can get ahold of me anytime you need ANYTHING and we can talk and "commiserate" together!!!
all my love andprayers
kris
 
Thank you both. It means a lot to have friends that I can open up to, instead of holding everything inside. My mom (bless her li'l ole pea-pickin' heart) tries, but there's just some things you can't tell your parents......ya know? :wink:

Thanks again! Kris, you can count on me, if ya need a good-ole-fashioned cry session.............((((((((((((hug))))))))))))
 
Faster horses said:
kris, did you get my PM?
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sure did...and will be looking for the book this weekend when I head on over to barnes and noble in bozeman!! sounds like one that our friend, ranchy could use, too!!
love ya both!!
keep your chin up, ranchy!!!! :wink:
kris
 
Sorry to hear that Ranchy...You certainly seemed to be trying and supportive.....

My Cusins Wife left him after her bout with Breast Cancer. Kinda strange how that happens sometimes. Wish you the best,


PPRM
 
Ranchy...

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Hugs to you my friend. Keep your chin up and remember to take care of yourself.

Also, I thank you for not making Al choose sides, I guarantee he'll forever love you for it too.

Hugs---

TTB :cry:
 
Thank you all........you are such a source of strength to me right now.

PPRM, I don't know what it is about an illness like that, I guess it really puts things in perspective, and they realize they truely aren't happy in the relationship they're in.........I'm just grasping at straws, here..........trying to make sense of it.

He came home pretty well soused last night, long after the chores were done, and it was dark out.......but woke up in a better mood, was even being "civil". I'm just having such a hard time on this emotional rollercoaster he's got me on, I never know what to expect anymore.

Thanks again for your understanding and support! ((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))
 
You have been up aginest so much latley. I am sure you are both on edge. Time may help.
 
Well I have thought since the day you posted.. trying to think of something encouraging, but have been left at a total loss for words. Someone once said to me "Fall seven times, but stand up eight" I think it applies to your current situation . Huge hugs. If ya just need an ear, I'm here....
 
I keep hoping it will just blow over, that suddenly he'll wake up and realize what he's trying to throw away. But I don't really think it's gonna happen anytime soon.

Thanks, guys! Y'all are the bestest! I so appreciate being able to come here and let off steam.......it's doing my sanity so much good!
 
I am truly very, very, sorry to hear it Ranchy.

(((())))

All I have is a couple words I heard a couple girls saying at school the other day, I hope it cheers ya up haha.

Friends are forever, boys are WHAT-EVER loike ah! lol.


Take care and God Bless. Drop me an email some time, Haven't heard from you in a while
 
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passinthru-----excellent words!!!! something for ranchy & I to keep in mind!!!! divorce could be final within the week!!! :cry: :cry: :cry:
 
Kris, keep your chin up.
Now I seem so foolish for worrying about my problems.
If this becomes final you might want to plan things to keep you busy during this time. Keep those kids close to you.

Set your goals high, and dont stop till you get there
 
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