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Angus Cattle Shower

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I have been teased and bullied for all my life, but now its worse than ever. I got called so many bad names today, had countlessvery, very mean and offencive things said to me today-things that would have made the devil himself cringe. I don't know what to do anymore. I have tried anything and everything possible. I guess all I can do is take it, saddle up again, keep a stiff upper lip, and no tlet them see what it does to me. :sigh: I guess it's life... :cry2: :cry2:
 
Angus Cattle Shower said:
I have been teased and bullied for all my life, but now its worse than ever. I got called so many bad names today, had countlessvery, very mean and offencive things said to me today-things that would have made the devil himself cringe. I don't know what to do anymore. I have tried anything and everything possible. I guess all I can do is take it, saddle up again, keep a stiff upper lip, and no tlet them see what it does to me. :sigh: I guess it's life... :cry2: :cry2:


As long as you are treating others the way you want to be treated I wouldn't worry about it. Sometimes if you have an attitude they will give you an attitude adjustment. Easier said than done, but remember this time in your life is just a speck in a dust storm. Keep a good attitude and don't let them know it bothers you. Most kids are jealous and will try and get to you over that. Others may be going through a tough time in life and want you to feel as rotten as they do. Just remember they have to look themselves in the mirror and be happy with what they see. It will make a stronger person of you as you will know what the other end feels like, so in return you will treat others better. So let us know it bothers you and not the others. If they can get your goat they will keep trying. You are a special young man and stay that way. Just don't bow to their level of inmaturity.
 
Easy there young feller!!! :)

I'm assuming that you are being teased and bullied by a group of other kids at school?
You will pay nothing for the following advice.....so maybe that is what it is worth...... but here goes.........

Figure out who the "leader" is. It will be the one doing most of the yapping, and also the biggest chicken of the bunch.
Pick out a fault that he/she has.(overbite,underbite,pimples,bad haircut....doesn't matter) and focus on that. Every time they start in on you, point out this particular fault in a way that will make the others in the group laugh.The most important thing is to focus on the "ringleader" and forget about the others.This should cure it.
I don't condone violence but I have heard that a head-butt to the face ,or a good groin-kick will also stop most bullies. There usually aren't many witnesses in the washroom.
Keep your chin up and look'em in the eye.
If all else fails, throw that dang shot-put at'em!!!! :wink: :)
 
Angus,rancher gave you great advice! Trust me I know its hard to be different,our daughter and one other girl in the school were the only ones who wore wranglers,were in 4-H and weren't allowed to go to parties and date at 12...both these girls had a hard time because of it.Our daughter now works with men,as a welder and trust me she holds her own,its hard but you will come out the better person in the end.Remember your better then they're names!! :D





Now if you can just give me all thier addresses our daughter will go kick some butts :lol: :lol: :lol:
 
TimH said:
Easy there young feller!!! :)

I'm assuming that you are being teased and bullied by a group of other kids at school?
You will pay nothing for the following advice.....so maybe that is what it is worth...... but here goes.........

Figure out who the "leader" is. It will be the one doing most of the yapping, and also the biggest chicken of the bunch.
Pick out a fault that he/she has.(overbite,underbite,pimples,bad haircut....doesn't matter) and focus on that. Every time they start in on you, point out this particular fault in a way that will make the others in the group laugh.The most important thing is to focus on the "ringleader" and forget about the others.This should cure it.
I don't condone violence but I have heard that a head-butt to the face ,or a good groin-kick will also stop most bullies. There usually aren't many witnesses in the washroom.
Keep your chin up and look'em in the eye.
If all else fails, throw that dang shot-put at'em!!!! :wink: :)

My advice on the name calling you have endured is................

NEVER LISTEN TO MAN THAT WEARS NASTY STINKIN DIRTY UNDERWEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
If you can laugh at youself..................do when they start in.

They only thrive when they think they are getting under your skin.

SMILE AT EM
 
Mike said:
TimH said:
Easy there young feller!!! :)

I'm assuming that you are being teased and bullied by a group of other kids at school?
You will pay nothing for the following advice.....so maybe that is what it is worth...... but here goes.........

Figure out who the "leader" is. It will be the one doing most of the yapping, and also the biggest chicken of the bunch.
Pick out a fault that he/she has.(overbite,underbite,pimples,bad haircut....doesn't matter) and focus on that. Every time they start in on you, point out this particular fault in a way that will make the others in the group laugh.The most important thing is to focus on the "ringleader" and forget about the others.This should cure it.
I don't condone violence but I have heard that a head-butt to the face ,or a good groin-kick will also stop most bullies. There usually aren't many witnesses in the washroom.
Keep your chin up and look'em in the eye.
If all else fails, throw that dang shot-put at'em!!!! :wink: :)

My advice on the name calling you have endured is................

NEVER LISTEN TO MAN THAT WEARS NASTY STINKIN DIRTY UNDERWEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Perfect example, ACS. Mike cleverly focused in on one of my faults and made fun of it. I won't tease him now for at least 4 hours. :wink:
 
TimH said:
Easy there young feller!!! :)

I'm assuming that you are being teased and bullied by a group of other kids at school?
You will pay nothing for the following advice.....so maybe that is what it is worth...... but here goes.........

Figure out who the "leader" is. It will be the one doing most of the yapping, and also the biggest chicken of the bunch.
Pick out a fault that he/she has.(overbite,underbite,pimples,bad haircut....doesn't matter) and focus on that. Every time they start in on you, point out this particular fault in a way that will make the others in the group laugh.The most important thing is to focus on the "ringleader" and forget about the others.This should cure it.
I don't condone violence but I have heard that a head-butt to the face ,or a good groin-kick will also stop most bullies. There usually aren't many witnesses in the washroom.
Keep your chin up and look'em in the eye.
If all else fails, throw that dang shot-put at'em!!!! :wink: :)


lol. They're not at my school-at the bus. And they all could beat me up. lmao... but I'd be game and take a few rounds outta them... lol. I never go down without a fight.

I am the onl yperson in the school who wears wranglers and levi's. lol.
 
ACS maybe TimH could lend you a pair of his "stinky" shorts and you could scare the bullies off with them.....


**** note to Mike**** I met Tim H the other day and he's a very clean cut young fella.....Us farmers and ranchers normally do clean up very well!! :wink:
 
Angus Cattle Shower said:
The names don't bother me-what else they said. :sigh:

As Earl says, What goes round comes round.

IT IS TRUE, ACS, "What goes around comes around". I've seen it so many times :!: :!: :!: Usually the revenge I want is not included, usually the outcome is SO MUCH MORE THAN I COULD HAVE IMAGINED!!! Let go and let God take care of tlhings, you'll find He is quite the expert on "mean" people!!!!
 
Angus Cattle Shower said:
I have been teased and bullied for all my life, but now its worse than ever. I got called so many bad names today, had countlessvery, very mean and offencive things said to me today-things that would have made the devil himself cringe. I don't know what to do anymore. I have tried anything and everything possible. I guess all I can do is take it, saddle up again, keep a stiff upper lip, and no tlet th em see what it does to me. :sigh: I guess it's life... :cry2: :cry2:
Life is short kid,got to make most of it,Words can't hurt yu,just shows yu what they are made of.As John Wayne would have said"Saddle up-we're burnin' daylight"--or nowadays they say cowboy up?
 
My advice is jsut to ignore them.......If they can't get a rise out of you, they'll get bored and will stop the bulling....
If not maybe a bunch of us need to go up there and kick some ash...
 

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