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poem for my granddad

jigs

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I lost my granddad this past week, and honestly we lost him months ago to althzimers...... I wrote this for him after a visit to the home he was in, grandma liked it so much it was worked into the funeral and I am very proud of the way it caught everyone off guard and really jerked the tears. I am not normally known for this kind of thing and a lot of my relatives keep asking me if I am leading a double life!!



He's in there somewhere,
But it's just so hard to see.
I know he's in there somewhere,
And he's yelling out to me.

He's telling of the memories
And all the crazy things we've done.
He wants us to look back,
And remember all the fun.

Things like Sunday dinners, and home made ice cream,
And how the Husker football team made Grandma scream!
How we chased the chickens, and played kick the can,
the old pony Joker, or getting buried in the sand.

Sledding down a cow path, getting bit by the geese,
Visits from Colorado, and picking on Jenise.
Riding in the wagons, as we filled the silo,
And the old Baldwin combine, as he cut the milo.

That famous stretch, and one big yawn, then
"The cow kicked Nelly, in the belly, by the barn."
So many things race through my mind,
The years with him were the grandest of times.

Now as we sit here, and he slips away,
There are so many things that I wish I could say.
I love you Grandpa, and wish you could hear me,
We all miss you so much, and cherish you dearly.

I know your in there somewhere,
I can see you if I try.
I know that you can see me,
When that twinkle is in your eye.

No matter where you go,
And when our worlds part.
It will always be that twinkle,
That I'll carry in my heart.
 
That was a very good poem, Jigs. It shows respect and honor to your granddad, and I'm sure your other relatives were proud of you for doing this. It is nice that it was used as part of the funeral.
 
Jigs,that was such a nice tribute to your Gramps. I work almost daily with Alzhiemers clients,its about the most devestating diease there is,you lose a person long before you lose them. I totally admire family that goes through this with a person,the reason they do it and do it soo faithfully was said in your tribute...Kudos to you and yours!!
 
Beautiful and loving tribute to your grandfather. That is a wicked cruel desease. I wish I could offer more comfort than this, but friends have said it has helped.


O God of love,
hear our prayer
for all who suffer from Alzheimer's.
In the days of changing memory,
be with them in their fears.
In the days when memory has gone,
bless their families who suffer.
Surround them with tender love
from family, friend, and stranger.
Grant them peace in their hearts,
a secure home environment,
and dignity in their lives.
May each day bring a blessing,
hope, and greater love.
Amen.
 
jigs, so sorry about your grandfather. I know what it must've been like for you and your family, because our family is dealing with the same situation. FIL has Alzheimers quite bad, it's tough on him and us. Some of his children will not face the fact that he has it. They think if they don't stop in and see how bad it is, then he's fine. But I'm there every day, and it's hard to see him with that totally confused expression on his face, and trying to get him to eat something, anything. It's very stressful for his second wife because she's tied to his side 24/7, just being there and making sure everything's all right.

That was a beautiful poem. Your grandfather would've been proud.
 
Jigs you did GREAT...it defenitely showed the respect and admiration you had for him. He smiled down upon you and heard every word of it. Love the twinkle of the eye part...brought back memories of my G.father, he died when I was so young. But, he always had a mischievious twinkle and then off he and I would go to the pasture, either fishing or just doing things my g.mother disapproved of. He would wink and grin and then off we went.

Thank you for posting your poem....

Easty
 
Sorry for your loss Jigs.. That was a very nice poem and brought back memories of my grandpa before he died... Spent alot of hours checking cows and riding on the combine cutting milo also...


Very well done and very respectful..
 
Sorry for your loss jigs, I am a firm believer that for every bad there is a good, you just proved it, you didn't know you could write such fine poems until you had the inspiration to pay tribute to a good and fine man that you had the priviledge of growing up with. Well done.
 

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