I'm sure glad I didn't read this yesterday and ruin a beautiful Monday! Maybe I'll post more about that on another thread rather than spoil the memory by mixing it with politics, tho it is a bit related to politics.
Now, leaning H, I can totally understand and sympathize with your points. Not much gets my ire up worse than someone saying rude, crude profane words! Yet, my very proper English grandmother taught me from my earliest memories that words cannot hurt me. Later 'teachers' taught me that only I can allow those hurtful words to affect me. And my common sense tells me that words may reflect more about the insecurities and failings of the person using them than he/she realizes. Then, too there is the issue of 'forgiveness'. So, where are we with this mess? Between that rock and a hard place, it seems. I do sort of believe those words reflect foolishness, stupidity, crass behavior and worse, and very likely were not reporting actions, but were tales attempting to 'impress' other fools he was with at the time. It is sad to say most of us likely have heard as bad from people around us and certainly such has been reported of some of those 'Frat Boy' incidents and even actual crimes against girls who may have been drunk or drugged at parties. We, as society, have been guilty of not punishing those involved, failing to instruct and insist in following rules those students, both the perpetrators and their 'victims'. So, where does that leave us now?
We have a truly criminal, possibly evil, woman running for the presidency, against a clearly selfish, often foolish, short tempered man, and neither is a good candidate......so with a two party government, imperfect as it has been in recent years, that seems to me our ONLY buffer between evil (Ms. Clinton clearly has compromised our national security, even more clearly has manipulated government for her own financial gain by 'assisting' individuals, even foreign governments via access and manipulation of our laws and govt agencies. She has been involved in assisting Russia to gain access to our Uranium, and even to harm the women her husband sexually abused. That, clearly, imo, is worse than what Trump has said. Even if he had done those things, someone, somewhere, sometime WILL make him pay for those sins.
My daughter, age 50+ is having a terrible time deciding what is the right thing to do in this election, and I've told her that while I sympathize, I believe it is the right thing to vote for the lesser evil and then work to make our Constitutional system of government better so this won't happen again. And, I believe it IS the lesser evil to vote Trump because for one thing, IF he gained his wealth 'unfairly', it was from other 'slick' businessmen who were trying to do the same to Trump, while Hilary stole her wealth by virtually 'selling our country', which is, imo, stealing from all US citizens who had no opportunity nor choice in the matter.
mrj