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Troubles... venting again...

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I opened all of my emails today... out of 12 I had one that was kind... the rest were all ridicule, and taunting m eabout my size... and one saying it was my fault my paarents divorced... I hav enever said anything even remotely mean, in fac teach itme i give them a cheery hello, but they just wont leave me alone. :cry: Face to face the ywill bug me about my size, but when they said something abaout my family, i lost it, and i told them to take it back or back it up... they tried but when im htis mad they diddnt have a chance in he77. Im sick and tired of this nonsence, and i dont know what to do... they can say what they want about me, but if they say one thing about my family, thats different. I swear ive tried everythign, but nothing sems to work. What should I do?
 
Sorry to here about this ACS. I know here on ranchers some say they won't read some peoples post because they don't like them so why not try just not opening E-MAIL from those dorks that you know are just trying to bully you. Just hit DELETE.
 
Good advice, BMR!!! DELETE!!! DELETE!!! DELETE!! Consider those people "spam mail" and simply hit that little button to your upper right!! You are gonna be a wonderful man when you grow up and you will learn from these rather harsh experiences and look back on them in your later years and think "I made it through the rain to enjoy the sunshine!!" I, too was teased unmercifully as a teen.....I was dirt-poor (the daughter of a correctional officer in Montana was not much then :cry: ), skinny/scrawny, did not have the "in" clothes to wear, could not afford the latest hair styles or make up and was not much into partying!! Things were he@@ back then, but the old saying really is true, ACS....those things in life that do not kill you will only make you stronger!! Just think how strong you will be when you finally make it through this storm!! I cannot wait!! :D :D :D
 
Very well said ranchwife.

I only have one thing to add. And it's just my opinion....when people treat other people like this, it's because they don't understand a person, or the person has somethin that they don't. Not necessarily material items.....maybe they just don't understand you. But that's ok...one of these days it'll all fall together. You'll go far in life if ya stick to your beliefs. Don't change for someone elses reasons. Chin up ACS.
 
I'm so sorry to hear that about you...It makes me so mad when kids are teased the way they look beauty is skin deep its not whats on the outside its whats on the inside...Never let anyone tease you about your mother and fathers divorce that has nothing to do with you at all...It's not your fault your parents didnt get along...You be strong and keep your head up and when they tease you walk away its easier said then done but that will only make them more upset cause they arent getting a reaction from you.Never let anyone bring you down to someone your not...
 
That makes me ill, that you have to dread going to school because of some dang bullies.

Do you have friends that will help you stand up to them, so you are
not alone? I think it might be time to get tough. I hate for you to be
outnumbered, though.

Sometimes, you just have to make a stand.
 
ACS................keep pushing forward. Do not show that you are worried, they are looking for a weakness to exploit. Keep smiling.
Ranchwife said it so well, follow her advice and you will not go wrong. I know of what she speaks......and it will pass. My son was even bullied and I can show you some of his revenge if you would like..........he got the last laugh. My daughter also. The thing about my kids I can always say.............the NEVER GAVE IN.
 
I dont really have friends down here... im the only country kid in the lot, but if i have to again, im sure i can hold my own... theyre smaller than the 1400lb son of a gun that i was halterbreaking a while ago-just is starting to tick me off.

As Earl says, what goes around comes around... whap!!!! lol.

have a good one
 
Hey kiddo I'm a little late reading this...ohhh it makes me mad :mad: Bullying is the meanest thing there is,someday THEY will regret it. Everyone gave you good advice,the thing is,if you ignore it and don't react,they get nothing out of it...delete the emails BEFORE you read them,I'm a firm believer negativity breeds negativity,and you don't want to get caught up in negative behavior yourself.Life isn't easy and everywhere you go there will be bullys,this is a tough life lesson for you but one that will make you a better person then they ever will be.

If that doesn't work send them here and I'll play Ivan Daines eight tracks over and over until they break.. :lol:
 
R2, I'll bet your kids weren't quitters either after seeing their accomplishments that you post here. I can see you are a fighter also, and please take that as a compliment.
 
Lotsa negativity ords Mrs. Greg. lol.

When ya play it for them, can I sing along? :shock: lol.

When ya get bucked off, grab the bull by the horns ad reride.

Have a good one
 
I would suggest trying out for the Football team. If your are a bigger kid, and I'm guessing you are probably stronger than other kids your age since you grew up in the country, I would think the coaches would be drooling over you. You would become part of the team and make alot of new friends, plus those kids that are picking on you (if they are also on the team) would have to answer to you everyday at practice. Most of them shut up when you run them over!
 
ACS, first, learn to laugh at yourself a little - now if someone is just being mean, the joke is over. My big Sister taught me "its none of my business what someone else thinks of me." and someone posted Churchill (not that he's any brighter than my sis) "what they said about me would make me mad if I valued their opinion."

R2, Your son is an inspiration to all who understand how unholy those blue blood private school cliques can be. My cousin went through some of the same stuff back east in Virginia, so when I visited him, we beat the hell out of the group of pasty faced creeps. This ofcourse proved our animal like inferriority to the group. Your Son's approach was much better, but it sure was fun seeing those self rightous little rich kids scream.
 
I was bullied until I hit 10th grade grew 8 inches that summer.I decked the biggest bully the first day of school problem solved.I don't tell my kids to turn the other cheek but they are not allowed to bully anyone or I will paddle them myself.
 
Brad, I laugh at my self almost 24/7... cause I do lotsa stupid stuff... ask the gregs. lol.

I was supposed to play football, but I had o tell the coach no, because it was interferring with my cattle-it was either sell my stock and play football o rnot play football and keep my stock-the decision was pretty simple. lol.

have a good one
 
passin thru said:
ACS................keep pushing forward. Do not show that you are worried, they are looking for a weakness to exploit. Keep smiling.
Ranchwife said it so well, follow her advice and you will not go wrong. I know of what she speaks......and it will pass. My son was even bullied and I can show you some of his revenge if you would like..........he got the last laugh. My daughter also. The thing about my kids I can always say.............the NEVER GAVE IN.
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My beautiful demodriver has also been the "victim" in the gang/pack bullying mentality!! Many times in her years in high school, she would come home in tears, yet she NEVER, NEVER, NEVER backed down! I offered several times to home-school her or let her move to another town with her "father" and the answer was always the same..."NO WAY!! I'M NOT LETTING THEM CHASE ME OFF!!!" Now, as she readies for her senior year, she is confident and ready and FEARLESS!!! She has become a beautiful, unique person that I am so very, very proud of!! You, too, will overcome, ACS!! We are here for you when you need us and always willing to listen!!! Good luck, young man!!! :wink:
 

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