kathydavis said:
i don't know how she halters she's five years old and he's only had her for about three months. the people that hasd her before him just put her out in the pasture. she's wore her halter every since he has had her. the way she does with the bridle, i don't really want to take it off. you have to hold her to saddle her. other than that you can walk up to her and pet her in the field as long as you don't have a lead rope, then she moves away from you but you can catch her without running after her.
This horse is living in a world where they feel the right decision can be to flee and that there are potential negative results to following along with you.....It does go back to a lot of basics is my guess.....
At this point, most people go to "Band-aid" techniques.....Mostly because they don't have the time to instill the basic foundations of trust AND respect......
I would never leave a halter on a horse. Never...... I am not trying to be harsh, just trying to point out this horses problem is likely not bitting. It is the behavior you recognize right now, because that is the task you are trying to acomplish. This horses problems revolve around trust, respect and realizing giving to presure makes life easier with no bad reprucusions...
I am not a horse trainer, just listen to some of the best............
My first bit of advice is to get the horse in a small pen and the halter off. Work with the horse daily as if it is any kind of a horse, it will soon start enjoying how you break the monotony of the day.......
A lot of what I do, I dunno if I can explain, because it is according to what the horse does. Basically, if both eyes aren't on you, one is looking at an escape route or something more interesting.... A big part of it is learning to read an animals body language. horses are about as honest creatures as there are....Women claim to be, but I am just not good at reading their body language, LOL...
Good luck,
PPRM
Wait, I just reread your post...You have to hold her to saddle her......Two things possible...
1) She has not the trust to be saddled calmly. This is a wreck waiting to happen. Get her to a competent trainer.....
2) She has learned if she throws a fit, she does not have to work...
On number two, I had a horse from a cousin who was like that. If you can read body language, it does not take much to get over it, but eventuallly the horse will try it again on someone....This horse has about the sweetest spirit and I can do whatever I want on her...
I personally think this is not a horse for a beginner.......Where do you live? There are people on this site with good broke horses that are a pleasure to get on. They wil also take te time to work with you a bit to make sure you and the horse are a fit...The hospital bills will buy a pretty good horse that is a pleasure to own....
I mentioned I am not a trainer. I do a lot with horses I raise as yealrings andthen send them off to a great trainer as two year olds. I mention this ecause it is very important to admit what you are and are not capable of doing or have the tme to do....If you can't you are not doing the horse or yourself any favors,
Just my thoughts,
PPRM