Angus,when we bought our place from Gregs parents,they moved to Camrose,we moved out of our mobile home that was just across the road....our son was 12 at the time,had lived his whole 12 years across from Gramma and Grampa. We moved all the stuff to the house,He would NOT move to the house.He stayed in the mobile home for over a week before his G+G came and talked to him...found out he thought if we moved to the house they couldn't move back,they explained thats not what they were going to do ever. I think thats whats up with you,if you go there you accept she won't come back...that my dear young man is somthing you yourself have to come to terms with!