Team1roper
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I had a 4-h (clean cut and good kid)highschool kid bring some marijana to a 4-h meeting
after the meeting my 2 sons (elementary and jr high) went to our barn to feed the animals, this kid while waiting on his parents went with them.
a few days later my son received a phone call and my wife not knowing the children were answering the phone picked up at the same time
this kid asked my son how he liked trying marijana.
my wife came to me with this immediately and we talked our son to death and punished him with restrictions. and continueing to talk to him and remind him of his mistake .
I also called the other parent and talked to them
I voiced my concern of this is the first time offense and i think this was there first time to stray into this territory and could be handled without destroying eveything for the child such as loosing 4-h which has been very good for this boy and other activities where the kids are a good influence on him.
I found out today his father beat him black and blue
with black eyes and scratches
I know this boy tried or succeeded in influencing my son but no kid needs to be beat like this in my eyes.
I feel like i did something wrong
all the 4-h kids i treat as my own and would take any of them in a heartbeat.
I just needed to tell someone thanks for listening
after the meeting my 2 sons (elementary and jr high) went to our barn to feed the animals, this kid while waiting on his parents went with them.
a few days later my son received a phone call and my wife not knowing the children were answering the phone picked up at the same time
this kid asked my son how he liked trying marijana.
my wife came to me with this immediately and we talked our son to death and punished him with restrictions. and continueing to talk to him and remind him of his mistake .
I also called the other parent and talked to them
I voiced my concern of this is the first time offense and i think this was there first time to stray into this territory and could be handled without destroying eveything for the child such as loosing 4-h which has been very good for this boy and other activities where the kids are a good influence on him.
I found out today his father beat him black and blue
with black eyes and scratches
I know this boy tried or succeeded in influencing my son but no kid needs to be beat like this in my eyes.
I feel like i did something wrong
all the 4-h kids i treat as my own and would take any of them in a heartbeat.
I just needed to tell someone thanks for listening