Shelly
Well-known member
Nothing wrong with being sappy, you just speak the truth. I know many men, especially the ones in this family that I married into, who don't realize a kind word can go a long ways. They're more for yelling and talking down to, to make their point come across. I, myself, have been on the receiving end of the harsh words more times than I can count, and the more I'm yelled at, the less I'm loving. Even explaining how they want things done can turn into a full-fledged war. If it's explained calmly and rationally, I understand a whole lot more, and the chances are good that I'll get it right the first time. The word "divorce" is very scary. I have thought it would be the right thing to do, also (still do), and actually, maybe sometimes it IS the best thing to do.