We are from the 'old school' and believe in the Code of the West.
Taking pasture away from another is NOT acceptable to us.
But sometimes, things are not as they appear.
Here is what happened to us once in W. Montana. There was some pasture for lease. 'Person X' got the lease (I'll not call him a neighbor or a friend). That fall, the peson who owns the land talked to us about leasing it. He said that "Person X" said he would take it and then never put one head of cattle on the pasture and never paid him a cent and that he would NEVER do business with "Person X" again... So, we said we would take the pasture (and was really glad to get it..) So the next spring, "Person X" called us up. He was plenty mad and said, "well, you think you have a pasture lease tied up and then you find out you don't because someone slipped in on you."
Mr. FH hates trouble with a passion. So he told "Person X"..."I'll tell you what...you just call up (the landowner) and if he will lease you the pasture, you can have it." Of course, "Person X" knew that wasn't possible and that ended it.
We had that pasture for 10 years, right up until the time we moved to SE Montana.
"Person X" was a real jerk. When he left that area, he went to say Good-bye to one of his neighbors, who told him at that time, "I wish you were dead instead of going to another community and stirring up trouble."
Everyone had a story to tell about him and none of them were good.
Here is something that I have really appreciated. It is framed and hung on the wall:
THE MAN IN THE GLASS
When you get what you want in your struggle for self
And the world makes you king for a day
Just go to the mirror and look at yourself
And see what that man has to say.
For it isn't your father or mother or wife
Whose judgement upon you must pass
The fellow whose verdict counts most in your life
Is the one staring back from the glass.
You may be like Jack Horner and chisel a plum
and think you're a wonderful guy;
but he man in the glass says you're only a bum
if you can't look him straight in the eye.
He's the fellow to please; never mind all the rest
for he's with you clear up to the end
and you've passed your most dangerous, difficult task
if the man in the glass is your friend.
You may fool the whole world down the pathway of years
and get pats on the back as you pass
but your final reward will be heartache and tears
if you've cheated the man in the glass.